A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN

In the age of online dating, The Outing Festival offers a unique opportunity for LGBTQ+ people to make connections in real life. Founder and queen of matchmaking Eddie McGuinness spoke to Alice Linehan about the importance of the annual event ahead of the 2025 Valentine’s weekend edition.

The Outing began in 2013 as a groundbreaking offshoot of Ireland’s famous Lisdoonvarna Matchmaking Festival, which has roots dating back over 150 years. Held in County Clare, the inaugural event was the first of its kind to focus on LGBTQ+ singles and celebration, blending the rich traditions of Irish matchmaking with a modern, inclusive and vibrant twist.

Curated by Eddie McGuinness, the festival brought together a dynamic mix of activities, including live music, comedy and drag, as well as matchmaking sessions facilitated by Lisdoonvarna’s celebrated matchmaker, Willie Daly. It was a resounding success, garnering national and international attention for challenging stereotypes, embracing inclusivity and showcasing the joy and diversity of queer culture in Ireland.

It remains as relevant today as it was then. Although many people now go online to find new connections, users often report feeling ‘swipe fatigue’ and frustration over the transactional nature of dating apps.

“The Outing Festival offers a refreshing alternative, focusing on fun, shared activities, and natural ways to meet people without the pressure of curated profiles and endless messaging,” McGuinness explained. “Algorithms can’t replicate the magic of shared experiences and dating apps can feel impersonal and often prioritise appearances over meaningful connection. Face-to-face interactions help break down barriers, foster chemistry, and build relationships rooted in real-life connections.”

And the proof is in the pudding. McGuinness shared several success stories, including that of Brian and Patrick, who met during a karaoke night at the festival in 2016.

“Their shared love of ‘80s pop songs led to a duet of ‘Take On Me’ by A-ha, which became an inside joke and later their wedding song. They tied the knot in 2021, with several friends they made at the festival in attendance,” McGuinness said.

“Sarah and Aoife attended The Outing Festival in 2019, each looking for a fun weekend but with no expectations. A casual chat during a matchmaking session turned into a shared interest in music and art. They exchanged numbers and started dating soon after. Fast forward to today, they’re living together in Dublin and make it a tradition to return to the festival every year to celebrate where it all began,” he added.

“Another unique story from 2018 saw Alex from Germany and Rory from Cork meet at the festival’s drag bingo night. Despite the distance, they maintained a long-distance relationship for two years, travelling back and forth. In 2020, Alex moved to Ireland, and the couple now happily resides in Limerick.”

Moreover, the festival goes beyond matchmaking. Not every story is romantic and many have instead left with lifelong friends and a sense of belonging. Maeve and Niamh, both solo attendees in 2015, struck up a conversation at a comedy show. They’ve remained close ever since and return to The Outing annually to celebrate their friendship anniversary.

The 2025 edition of the festival promises to be its most ambitious yet, with Eddie McGuinness, Paul Ryder, and Victoria Secret hosting a jam-packed Valentine’s weekend programme. Attendees can look forward to matchmaking sessions, spectacular entertainment, events and activities, as well as social and relaxation opportunities, all at a stunning location—The Inn at Dromoland in Clare. Taking place from February 14 to 16, it promises to continue redefining what matchmaking means in the modern era, blending tradition with innovation and celebrating love in all its glorious diversity.

To book tickets for The Outing Festival 2025 and to stay up to date on all future events, visit www.theouting.ie.