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As an avid ally of the queer community, Aarya Bhutani has had the privilege of experiencing the dynamics of queer spaces in both Ireland and India. Moving to Dublin two years ago to pursue her master’s degree, she left her home country behind. She describes a journey that has been more than just academic, but a profound experience of personal growth.

The contrast in acceptance, openness, and vibrancy between the queer communities in India and Ireland is stark and showcases the differences and similarities in LGBTQ+ spaces globally.

The Irish capital has done a great job in embracing diversity and fostering an environment that encourages openness and self-expression. The city’s Pride celebrations, which I was very grateful to be part of for the first time in my life, are a testament to the vibrant and inclusive nature of Dublin’s queer community. This year’s Dublin Pride was a powerful experience. Marching in solidarity with friends and colleagues, it made me realise the strength of unity and the importance of ongoing conversations. It reinforced that I am part of something bigger than myself.

What I love about Dublin is that queer spaces are not confined to specific districts or neighbourhoods; rather, they permeate the entire city. The acceptance is noticeable in bars, clubs, and community events, where individuals can be their authentic selves.

Contrastingly, the Indian queer community has faced a more complex journey towards acceptance. While significant strides have been made in recent years with the decriminalisation of homosexuality in 2018, societal attitudes remain a hurdle. The diverse cultural and religious landscape in India often results in varying degrees of acceptance across different regions.

In my experiences within the Indian queer community, the struggle for acceptance is more apparent. Many folks in the LGBTQ+ community still grapple with societal expectations, family pressures, and the fear of discrimination. Queer spaces in India, although existent, may not always provide the same sense of liberation and acceptance found in Dublin.

I believe cultural and legal differences play a significant role in shaping the contrasting narratives of these two communities. In Dublin, the legal framework supports LGBTQ+ rights, creating an environment where individuals can express their identities freely. This legal backing is complemented by a cultural shift that embraces diversity and encourages open dialogue.

In India, the legal landscape has evolved positively, but cultural nuances often hold up the progress we would like to achieve. While progressive urban centres may offer more accepting spaces, rural areas and conservative communities can be less tolerant. The intersection of cultural and legal factors creates a complex tapestry that influences the queer experience.

A personal favourite in Dublin is that the level of community support and activism further distinguishes the vibrancy of queer spaces in Dublin. Dublin boasts a robust network of LGBTQ+ organisations and activists who actively champion for equal rights and representation. The sense of community extends beyond just socialising; it involves advocacy and solidarity that uplifts individuals. I consider myself grateful to have had the opportunity to meet some of these champions and be at some of these events.

Wrapping up my thoughts on why I adore the queer community here in Dublin, let me tell you about the everyday magic that surrounds me. It’s not just at Pride parades or big events – it’s in the little details of my daily life. In stickers on shop windows proudly displaying phrases that I know many resonate with, in fancy tote bags, in rainbow lanyards, in colourful beanies and shoelaces and so much more.

It’s these simple, everyday moments and personal connections that make Dublin’s queer community feel like home.

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